Fortune – And there’s the poignant letter his mother wrote in 1993 to his fiancĂ©e, Melinda French, cluing her in to the Gates family credo: “From those to whom much has been given, much is expected.” (Mary Gates would die the next year.) That letter, in turn, led to the self-conscious irony in the slogan he and his wife hit upon for the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation: All lives have equal value.
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